Sunday, June 20, 2010
The Need for Fathers
Your Family’s Most Important Textbook
June 18, 2010 From theTrumpet.comGod commands you to use it! Here is some practical help for conquering life’s obstacles in order to reap the rich rewards of regular family Bible study. By Joel Hilliker
If you are a parent with children living under your roof, then you are responsible before God for their spiritual education. That responsibility comes with the opportunity to instruct from Scripture.
If you study the book of Deuteronomy, you can see that Moses felt a similar responsibility to build the families of Israel. In this, his final instruction to God’s people just before he died and they entered the Promised Land, Moses repeatedly emphasized parents’ duty to pass their spiritual wisdom to their children and grandchildren.
“And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up” (Deuteronomy 6:6-7, New King James Version). The phrase “teach them diligently” means to repeat intensively, to do something again and again—like sharpening a blade through repetitious grinding or friction. Surely Moses had witnessed a lot of failure among Israel’s families. You can sense his urgency: Commit these words to heart—then teach them diligently to your children, and discuss them at every opportunity! This is how to survive as a nation!
Moses did more than command family Bible studies: He emphasized the importance of reinforcing those biblical lessons throughout the day, both at home (“in your house”) and away (“by the way”). He expected parents and children to be interacting often, and for the Bible to be a regular topic of discussion. He stressed the need for instructing each night before bedtime (“when you lie down”), and again each morning (“when you rise up”).
Moses followed up with a very practical instruction: He advocated writing certain scriptures and principles down and posting them in the house to help internalize them (verse 9; see also Deuteronomy 11:18-20).
Spend some time taking these scriptures to heart—even committing yourself to them in prayer before God. Life can be a jungle of duties and distractions. We may agree with Moses’s statements in principle but then struggle to implement them. We may make an effort but lack the consistency these scriptures demand. The mention of diligence and repetition are aimed directly at countering our natural tendency to allow this duty to slip.
Generation to Generation
Consider the rewards of making family Bible instruction the priority God intends. Moses himself described the rich blessings these studies and discussions would bring, including a better relationship with God, stronger families, and longer and more abundant life for ourselves and our children and grandchildren (Deuteronomy 11:21; 4:9-10; 6:2).
Every parent desires a close bond with his children. Quality family Bible study and discussion is a key to achieving that. Parent-to-child and grandparent-to-child spiritual instruction is the glue that binds generation to generation. “One generation shall praise thy works to another, and shall declare thy mighty acts” (Psalm 145:4). This is a powerful antidote to the poisonous influences of the world that aim to tear children away from their parents.
Even more: Obedience to this command welds individual families into a single nation under God. Moses showed that it does nothing less than ensure long-lasting national stability and guarantees a future as a godly nation! Meditate on those promises in conjunction with Proverbs 22:6: “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Consider the principle, and the incredible promise, in these scriptures. If parents in Israel had diligently followed the command to teach their children, the nation never would have departed from God’s way!
Let’s learn from this failure and heed the urgent plea from this great God-inspired man and make sure we’re rearing our children to know and love the Bible.
How to Go About It
The idea of expounding on the Scriptures for your family may seem daunting. Here are a few simple points that will help you move from agreeing in principle with this biblical command to actually making it a part of your family’s regular routine.
First, you yourself must be excited about the Bible. Look again at the passage in Deuteronomy 6. The two verses that precede the main instruction on teaching your children read, “And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart” (verses 5-6). You have to love God, and love His Word—to be stirred and moved and excited about your own Bible study. If you struggle with your own studies, then you won’t be motivated to teach; naturally, your children will struggle as well.
How much do you know about the Bible? Are you accustomed to searching the Scriptures for answers to the problems you face? Are you comfortable with using Bible helps like concordances, lexicons and alternate translations? Can you read a passage and expound on it? Can you relate Bible verses to real-life situations? These are skills we must continually develop and refine throughout our Christian lives (Luke 12:42-43; 2 Timothy 2:15; 3:15-17; read also Hebrews 5:12-14).
As you build excitement in your personal Bible study, your eagerness to pass it on to your children will increase. Cultivate that enthusiasm by acting upon it.
Your aim is to build a regular habit of instructing your children from God’s Word and talking about the things of God. Until you are in the habit, it may feel awkward and forced—but keep at it. Over time, it will become easier for you, and your children will grow more receptive and accustomed to it. Have a set time each morning and each evening before bedtime to at least talk about God, His truth and way of life.
At least a few times a week, this time should include reading straight from the Bible. It is certainly fine to read high-quality youth Bible-based books to your children. But your main habit in family Bible study should involve the Bible itself. You may want to go somewhat methodically through a portion of the Bible such as the Proverbs or the Gospels. It would be wise to adapt your study at times according to your family’s specific needs at that time. You may want to choose a particular theme each week and give several related studies hitting that topic from various angles—law, history, proverbs, examples, prophecy.
Try to make God real to your children. Talk about His qualities of character. Show them what He looks like, and what His throne room is like. Give them a sense of His mightiness. Get into the details of His miracles; read to them about His mighty acts.
Each specific study may only involve a single verse, or perhaps two to three related verses. In a two-parent household, the father should read the scripture, then rephrase it in plain terms and explain it, making it very practical. Show how the scripture links to real-life examples. Be creative in getting the concepts across. Make it fun, exciting. Be sure the children understand. The mother should also add to the discussion. Ask them questions; have them think of examples of their own; encourage them to link the principles to their own daily lives. The more practical and understandable this teaching is, the easier it will be to reinforce it in discussion during the day.
Don’t go on for too long. Depending on your children’s age and attention span, you might go for 5 to 20 minutes. Work to hold their interest and keep it a positive experience. Praise your children as they progress. Don’t discourage them about things they forget—heap praise on them for what they remember. Take advantage of the fact that they want to please you. Ensure they have the overall feeling that studying the Bible is enjoyable, and that God’s way is great!
What a positive command it is that we share our spiritual riches with our children! Deuteronomy 6:7 and related scriptures embody a way of life. A way pulsating with life, with robust interactions between generations. A way where God’s government is firmly in place, with God at the top and every last member of the household experiencing the joy and stability that come as a result.
Family Bible studies require diligent effort—but the blessings they produce are well worth it. •
Copyright © 2010 Philadelphia Church of God, All Rights Reserved.
God is the best father of them all!!
Happy Fathers Day too all the fathers out there!!!
As I sit here today, being that it is "fathers day", I am happy yet sad at the same time. You see, I have a dad according to the flesh, but I have ONLY ONE father - JEHOVAH. I don't have two fathers, for God ONLY can be my father. You see he knew me even before I appeared into this world, even in my mother's womb - Hallelujah!!. Sad to say I had to work on this very special day. Oh, well, such is life...... You see, I am finding myself struggling to find a "church of christ" where my family can call home. Just any kind of church just won't do!. As the old Negro spiritual says..."99 and a half just wont do, got to have 100%%.
One reason is because of what the prophet Amos declared would happen in our day when he said these words – “Amos 8:11-13 - Behold, the days come, saith the Lord GOD, that I will send a famine in the land, not a famine of bread, nor a thirst for water, but of hearing the words of the LORD:And they shall wander from sea to sea, and from the north even to the east, they shall run to and fro to seek the word of the LORD, and shall not find it.In that day shall the fair virgins and young men faint for thirst.
But the main reason is because of all the sects/denominations that have gone are claiming to preach and teach “THE TRUTH”. The Apostle Paul asked a very sobering, yet very fitting question for the day we are living in today - “1 Corinthians 1:10-13 - Is Christ divided? was Paul crucified for you? or were ye baptized in the name of Paul?. He follows this with an admonition for the unity of the churches of God – “Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.”
Cled Wallace once said, “Any man who can prove the righteousness of denominationalism by the New Testament is capable of proving that Peter was a Papist, Paul a Baptist, James an Episcopalian, Luke a Methodist...” The point that Wallace makes is one seldom addressed, but worthy of our consideration: do the Scriptures support the idea of denominationalism?
Some of us who reject denominationalism insist at the other end of the spectrum that the New Testament church that existed while the apostles walked the earth can be found today.
We want to explore, on the one hand, the meaning of denominationalism and examine this religious philosophy in light of the Scriptures. Can this approach to Christianity be defended with a “Thus saith the Lord?” On the other hand, is it possible that the church of the Bible can be reproduced today? If the church of the Bible does exist today, how can we find it? We pray you will join us in examining these questions with an open Bible, but first enjoy our song…
Denominationalism: should you be in favor of it? Well, first we need to figure out what denominationalism is. Any seventeen letter word with eight syllables is bound to defy understanding, but in a few minutes of careful reflection I believe we can get a handle on it.
Consider the definition of denomination in general:
“Appellation: identifying word or words by which someone or something is called and classified or distinguished from others…”
In the monetary system, a denomination indicates “different values of money.
In a religious context, a denomination is “a group of religious congregations having its own organization and a distinctive faith.” “Denominationalism is the division of one religion into separate groups, sects, schools of thought or denominations...” The American Heritage Dictionary has "The tendency to separate into religious denominations." The Dictionary of Religious Terms defines "denominationalism" as "a term for the continuation of organizations, and emphasis on the divisions and distinctions, of Protestantism.” Did you notice what words that keep coming up - different, distinguish, separation and division? Not good!
We should receive Jesus’ rebuke of the Pharisees in Matthew 15:13-14 as a caution against being a part of the denominational system, "Every plant which My heavenly Father has not planted will be uprooted. Let them alone. They are blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind leads the blind, both will fall into a ditch." J. W. McGarvey says of this passage in the Fourfold Gospel, “The words of Jesus are full of encouragement to those who adhere to the simple teachings of God; for they show that God guarantees that every error shall be uprooted, and that every teacher of error or false religion shall participate in the judgment which uproots, and shall fall into the pit of ruin; and his disciples, no matter how numerous, shall share his fate.”
DENOMINATIONAL LEADERS SPEAK OUT
Reflective leaders within the denominational world even recognize that the denominational scheme is undesirable. Billy Graham wrote in his book, Facing Death and the Life After, "In heaven there will be no sectarian worship, no denominational differences, no church creeds...I was brought up a Presbyterian and later became a Baptist. But in later years I have felt that I belong to ALL churches...God did not invent denominations, man did."
The late Yale Divinity Professor, Richard Niebuhr, zeroed in on the fundamental problem with the denominational approach to Christianity when he wrote, "Denominationalism thus represents the moral failure of Christianity. . . . Before the church can hope to overcome its fatal division it must learn to recognize and to acknowledge the secular character of its denominationalism."
Denominationalism sanctions and promotes division and, in so doing, as one man puts it, “Denominationalism mocks Jesus' prayer for unity.” Bold statement? Yes, but listen for yourself as Jesus pours out his heart in prayer right before His betrayal in John 17:20-21, “I do not pray for these alone, but also for those who will believe in Me through their word; that they all may be one, as You, Father, are in Me, and I in You…that the world may believe that You sent Me.” Did you hear what Jesus said? Division produces disbelief. Jesus prayed that we “all be one…that the world may believe…”
Paul is more direct in I Corinthians 1:10, “Now I plead with you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.” While the emphasis here is on congregational division certainly it applies to all believers.
ONE FAMILY OF BROTHERS
The Holy Ghost tells us in I Peter 2:17 to “Love the brotherhood” not “love the brotherhoods.” Thayer says in his lexicon this word brotherhood can also be translated “family of brothers” (singular). In a similar vein in Ephesians 4:5, the apostle says there is “one faith” and “one body,” not the “many faiths” and “many bodies” perpetuated by denominationalism. Contrast the chaos and confusion created by the contradictory teaching of denominational creeds with the practice of the apostle Paul. He tells the church at
Later, Paul tells the church at
Then, in Romans 16:17, we see how Christians are to respond to he who and, by extension, that which causes division, “Now I urge you, brethren, note those who cause divisions and offenses, contrary to the doctrine which you learned, and avoid them.”
HOW DO WE FIX THE PROBLEM?
Three approaches to addressing the disease of division within the denominations are: 1) Becoming Roman Catholic, 2) promoting ecumenism and 3) restoring the first century church.
SUBMIT TO THE POPE
The Roman Catholic formula is simple. Agree to submit to the authority of the popes and councils over your creeds, confessions of faith and the Scriptures. Of course, the existence of the most historic and entrenched denominations is based primarily on their refusal to submit to the pope. The very word Protestant represents the primary protest against papal authority that ignited the Reformation. So, for conscientious denominational people this is a non-starter. Anyone who believes that the word of God is the ultimate standard of truth is duty-bound to reject the pope as its replacement.
ECUMENISM
What about ecumenism? The movement claims to work toward bringing about unity among believers, but the ecumenical boondoggle hardly deserves this classification as it continues to drain valuable resources with nothing meaningful to show for it. The Roman Catholic Church ignited the ecumenical movement with Vatican II in 1962. The World Council of Churches and other groups promote it. The problem with ecumenism is that the solution to division is tolerance which is merely a euphemism for ignoring all the religious error that may exist in other groups - “Your okay, I’m okay.”
In the subtitle to his book, A Generous Orthodoxy, Brian McLaren is typical of those within the movement when he describes himself as “a Missional, Evangelical, Post/Protestant, Liberal/Conservative, Mystical/Poetic, Biblical, Charismatic/Contemplative, Fundamentalist/Calvinist, Anabaptist/Anglican, Methodist, Catholic, Green, Incarnational, Depressed-yet-Hopeful, Emergent, Unfinished CHRISTIAN.” If nothing else you have to admire this man’s forthrightness. He does not even attempt to provide doctrinal soundness and clarity. The truth voiced in a country song indicts this misguided attempt at unity:
You've got to stand for something or you'll fall for anything.
You've got to be your own man not a puppet on a string.
Never compromise what's right and uphold your family name
You've got to stand for something or you'll fall for anything.
You see, the idea behind ecumenism is really not true unity, but a forced union. Union is not unity. The
The ecumenical movement is not really undenominational, but all-denominational. It’s compromise instead of conviction. That’s why popular mega church preachers preach so many sweet nothing sermons. They must coo and cluck to keep the crowds coming. Folks, isn’t this what the Holy Spirit warned about in 2 Timothy 4:3-4? The Spirit said through the apostle, “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables.”
In the same prayer where Jesus prayed for unity, He prayed a few verses earlier, “Sanctify them by thy truth; thy word is truth.” Truth comes before unity in this passage. There can be no real unity without truth. In fact, the apostle John tells his brethren in 3 John 4 that he has “no greater joy than to hear that they walk in the truth.” In Jude 3, doctrinal compromise receives a more direct hit: “Earnestly contend for the faith once delivered to the saints.” The ecumenical movement fails to pass the biblical test of unity.
Restoring the New Testament Church
What about the third option for establishing unity by restoring the New Testament church? Can that really be done? Allow me to illustrate how it can. Understand, first of all, that the word of God is the seed of the kingdom according to Luke 8:11. When you plant the same seed, you get the same fruit. When you plant Granny Smith apple seeds you always get Granny Smith apples. It doesn’t matter if you plant them in AD 33, AD 333 or AD 1833. It doesn’t matter if you plant the seed in
The fundamental flaw with denominationalism is the sanctioning of many different hybrid seeds being sown.
Consider the inspired words of I Peter 1:22-25: “Since you have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit in sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently with a pure heart, having been born again, not of corruptible seed but incorruptible, through the word of God which lives and abides forever…Now this is the word which by the gospel was preached to you.”
The corruptible seed planted by men must be replaced with the incorruptible seed of the pure gospel. We are talking about restoration, not reformation. Leaders of the Reformation must be commended for recognizing the contradictions between Roman Catholicism and the Scriptures. They knew that changes had to be made. But their approach was to reform or correct the errors as they saw them instead of scrapping that faulty system and starting all over with the New Testament. This was inadequate for such a rats nest.
Thankfully, several groups of men realized this beginning in the late 1700’s in
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Finally, we echo the sentiment of the apostle Paul when he wrote in Romans 16:16, “the churches of Christ salute you.” Until next week, goodbye and God bless.